Who We Are.

Our Administration Team

Kathi Gatlin
Executive Director

Kathi Gatlin co-founded the Companioning Center and founded Boldly Loved to bring together her two greatest passions: spiritual formation and teaching. Walking alongside others in their spiritual journey, whether individually or in groups, brings her immense joy. She loves sharing the contemplative life and exploring ways of understanding God with others.

Kathi is a trained spiritual director, supervisor, and educator. She holds a D.Min in Leadership and Spiritual Formation and an M.Ed. 

Melodie Scalf
Community Administrator

Melodie delights in sharing spiritual practices that invite embodied living. One of her favorite ways to explore invitational living is through nature, which reduces distractions and increases our exposure to beauty. Melodie believes that beauty is not stagnant but is a taste, a glimpse of God who is calling us forth. 

Melodie is a Spiritual Director and Integrative Health and Wellness Coach; she holds an M.A. in Spiritual Formation and Direction.

Our Board

Alyssa Bell

Board President
Alyssa Bell is a pastor at Emmanuel Presbyterian Church in Spokane, WA where she lives with her husband Matthew and daughters Theresa and Susie. While serving the church, which she loves, she pursues complimentary vocational avenues like teaching and spiritual direction.

She completed her Doctor of Ministry degree in Leadership and Spiritual Formation in 2021 (Portland Seminary) and the Spiritual Direction Training Program through the Companioning Center in 2022. 

Kathi Gatlin

Board Vice President
Kathi co-founded the Companioning Center in 2017 after bringing together a group that shared this vision of community in the work of spiritual formation and spiritual direction. Soul companioning can be a lonely vocation. Creating a space of community, both for those wanting more in their relationship with God and for those who walk alongside others, is a beautiful place to belong and be accompanied in this sacred ministry.

Teaching and walking alongside others in their spiritual journey, whether individually or in groups, brings Kathi immense joy. She loves sharing the contemplative life and exploring ways of understanding God with others.

Kathi is a trained spiritual director, supervisor, and educator. She holds a D.Min in Leadership and Spiritual Formation and an M.Ed.

Abby Sham

Board Secretary
Abby Sham is a spiritual director, contemplative curator, and Doctor of Spirituality student at Claremont School of Theology. Certified through the Companioning Center and grounded in the compassionate, evocative model of soul care, she companions people from all walks of life—welcoming faith, doubt, diverse spiritual paths, and the creative ways we make meaning. Her trauma-informed approach weaves together Ignatian spirituality, Internal Family Systems, contemplative practices, and creativity to help people notice God’s presence in the ordinary rhythms of life. Deeply impacted by the Companioning Center’s certificate program, Abby serves on its board with a hope to grow its reach and diversity, widening the welcome for those seeking formation and supporting a vibrant community for spiritual directors. She enjoys exploring Seattle’s parks and beaches with her two young children.

She holds an M.Div. from Seattle Pacific Seminary and an M.T.S. from Pentecostal Theological Seminary.

Sheryl Graves

Board Treasurer
Sheryl Graves has a passion for spiritual formation and facilitated learning experiences. She delights in hosting open spaces, allowing people to awaken
to themselves and God’s deep, abiding presence with them. Prior to receiving her MA in Spiritual Formation and Certificate of Spiritual Direction from
Portland Seminary, Sheryl served on a church staff in adult discipleship, leadership development, and executive leadership. She also has experience working in mission, parachurch, and business organizations.

Sheryl is a spiritual director, trained Ignatian guide, sabbatical companion, small group facilitator, and retreat speaker or guide.

Alaine Buchanan

Board Director
Alaine Buchanan is an ordained minister, spiritual director, an active duty Army chaplain's spouse and a mom. Alongside serving as the Dean of the College of Graduate and Professional Studies at North Central University in Minneapolis, MN, she finds great joy in coming alongside and offering spiritual direction for corporate, executive, military, entrepreneurial, and ministry leaders and spouses. Her specializations include discernment, inner healing, focusing, trauma-informed care, spiritual formation practices, sabbaticals, and group spiritual direction. These specialties are largely a result of the training she has received through the Companioning Center.

Alaine also holds a Ph.D. in Second Temple Jewish Literature and History from Regent University in Virginia Beach.

Lang Charters

Board Director
Lang’s passion is to help people ride the upward spiral of love. A deep love for yourself, others, life, and something greater. Nearly losing his life, becoming disabled, and losing his career as an air force officer as a result—as well as going through two divorces—taught him we tap into love’s flow by living into our belovedness, while companioning one another through all the twists and turns of life. He delights in journeying with others into greater freedom and wholeness via deep listening, embodiment practices, and connecting to the spark of the divine within each of us.

Lang is a certified spiritual director, life coach, and yoga instructor; and certifiably in love with life, the Seahawks, good wine, and his wife. He holds a D.Min in Leadership and Spiritual Formation and M.Div. You can connect with him, or learn more about the Companioning Center, at lightlovelang@gmail.com.

Sue Giordano

Board Director
Sue Giordano is an executive leadership coach, speaker, and spiritual director with a passion for helping individuals and leaders live with greater purpose, integrity, and joy. She brings more than 30 years of experience serving on leadership teams across the business world, helping organizations navigate growth, change, and the development of healthy, people-centered cultures.

Sue holds a Master of Social Work and has completed certificates in Spiritual Direction and Spiritual Formation. She is passionate about creating spaces where people can deepen their relationship with God, discover their authentic identity, and experience lasting transformation that impacts every area of life. She is honored to serve on the Companioning Center Board and support its mission of providing compassionate spiritual care and accompaniment to others.

Lynn Holt

Board Director
Lynn is gifted in preparing and supporting soul companions whose faithful response in these challenging times invites generous listening and a compassionate heart for the sake of the world. Her ministry is grounded in a contemplative posture of holy listening, surrendering to the Mystery with a sense of awe and curiosity, and the dynamic relationship of God's Presence.

Lynn is a Quaker and has received training as a spiritual director, supervisor, and educator. She holds an M.Div. from Portland Seminary.

Lisa Moore

Board Director
Lisa Moore is the founder and CEO of Moore Possibilities Consulting based in Memphis, TN. She is driven by her unyielding belief in the inherent goodness and brilliance of every human being. She is passionate about creating spaces and experiences for individuals and groups to tap into their heart, soul, and being to unleash their unique gifts and talents. She loves walking alongside others as they seek greater connection, meaning and purpose by providing leadership coaching, spiritual direction, swimming instruction or keynote speeches.

Lisa’s 37+ year professional journey has included various leadership roles. She is active in her community including Co-creator of bachelor’s in education, youth development major at University of Memphis, Co-creator of Common Ground: Conversations on Race-Communities in Action city-wide initiative, leader in community advocacy for environmental health with efforts to block both a landfill and an oil pipeline. Lisa is a graduate of Memphis State and Concordia University with a bachelor's and master’s in education, the Companioning Center’s Spiritual Direction certification program, Leadership Memphis Executive Class of 2003, and is a certified water safety instructor. 

Jean Nevills

Board Director
Jean Nevills' desire for God has led to adventures in contemplative wisdom and solitude, as well as mission adventures as far away as Ethiopia, South Korea, and China. Marriage and mothering, a family business, and community life are the natural arenas for ongoing spiritual transformation, spiritual practices, and living life with God in a Jesus way.

A Spiritual Director and Supervisor with a Master’s degree in Christian Education and Certificate in Spiritual Formation from the Renovare Institute, Jean has served as a Spiritual Director and Supervisor at Portland Seminary and a praxis instructor for Fuller Seminary’s DMin in Spiritual Direction.

Paul Nunn

Board Director
Paul has spent his adult life serving in local church ministry, including as a worship leader and elder. His faith journey has been marked by seasons of grief and disappointment, as well as times of true peace and goodness. He has found that doubt and hard questions are welcome on the journey with Jesus.

Paul is a certified spiritual director through the Companioning Center and is currently pursuing a MA in Spiritual Formation at Portland Seminary.

Paul is passionate about cultivating Christian community and is both thankful for and excited about the growing community in and around the Companioning Center.
As a lover of the outdoors, he believes that any amount of time spent in nature can be an opportunity to savor the very imagination of God. You will often find him leading others into wild places around the Pacific Northwest. He lives in Oregon’s southern Willamette Valley with his beloved family and one very indoorsy chocolate lab.

Katie Skurja

Board Director
Catherine “Katie” Skurja is the founder and director of Imago Dei Ministries. Her greatest passion is to accompany people in the journey of discovering who they are in their Imago Dei (image of God). Deeply rooted in and dedicated to Trinitarian principles, the ministry’s purpose is to help people everywhere engage in a Christ-centered healing process that transforms relationships with God, self, and others.

Katie has received training as a counselor, spiritual director, and in the work of inner healing prayer. She has received an MA in Counseling and an MA in Spiritual Direction.

Our 
Instructors

Our instructors are highly qualified spiritual formation professionals, who all create a spacious space in our virtual community.