What You Seek You Find
The gentleness, curiosity, and memory-sharing came as an unexpected gift. Over lunch at Black Hawk Café in Neskowin, our conversation shifted to how people find what they look for. If we think we are lucky/fortunate/blessed (words we tried on, none of which settled well for all of us) often enough we find evidence for that and experience life that way. If we think God/Life/Fate is unfair or out to get us, we find evidence enough for that, too.
